Do All Cheaters Think The Same?

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Comments • 80

  • Ihaveloveattacks
    Ihaveloveattacks 3 hours ago

    Coming from a cheater I actually regretted cheating on that person because that person really loved me and I cheated on that person with 3 other people I was like on player mode like I was rollin

  • variety addict
    variety addict 3 hours ago

    Yeah it's not all black and white especially in a marriage where the relationship becomes much more complex. But cheating is IMMORAL, no matter what reason.
    My dad cheated on my mom several times but my mom hid it from us, but the last time I discovered it and all hell broke loose. I became the adult to a manchild where I talked my father out and even when he was found out he couldn't just let go of the affair instantly, he even wanted me to keep it a secret from my mother. My mom became suspicious because I always talked to my father secretly when he went home at night and when we were caught I told her the truth.
    I did not care whether he was my father or she was my mother. I just did what I thought was right. Afterwards my parents had a brawl in the room where I broke in and screamed at my father so loudly and angrily that I felt screaming wasn't enough. I wanted to scream at him as if my skin was being peeled off, and that was the first time I ever acted disrespectful to him but no one stopped me. I still have nightmares about that screaming thing until now. He made a failed attempt at crying, but I only loathed him more because I never saw regret in his eyes.
    They both had excuses, too complex for me to process in my adolescent brain, even now that I'm an adult. But the pain was real. I saw my dad in a different light, once my idol but right then a stranger. My mom was like a zombie, living everyday as if it were only an obligation. I had to act in front of my siblings pretending everything was alright as I was the eldest, but as I do all those household chores I suddenly feel immense fear that my family would break up, then I'd just cry endlessly. Those were one of the darkest days of my life.
    Several years have passed, but when something like cheating was mentioned in the television, we would all go stiff. My parents would act as if nothing was going on. But I knew too well. No one has forgotten. I thought I had forgiven my father, but the contempt and resentment were still in my heart. Anyone can put it behind. But it'd never go away.
    I would not wish this even to my worst enemy.

  • Evangeline Eden
    Evangeline Eden 4 hours ago

    I’ve cheated once before but my thoughts are almost nowhere near the same as theirs. I simply fell out of love with the person I was with and when I cheated I finally wholly 100% realized and accepted that we shouldn’t be together anymore. That we were hurting one another in different ways

  • Evangeline Eden
    Evangeline Eden 4 hours ago

    It amazes me the kind of relationships people have 🥶

  • John Doe Bean
    John Doe Bean 7 hours ago

    These people need serious help. I don't understand how one can think it's okay to cheat instead of leave. I swear I get a serial killer/psychopath vibe from everybody in this video.

  • Yung Space
    Yung Space 9 hours ago


  • Yung Space
    Yung Space 9 hours ago

    I hope Vincent is different from he’s saying cuz he sounded like a bad person

  • Hanii Honeyy
    Hanii Honeyy 10 hours ago

    I ain’t even gonna say nothing...but we all thinking the same thing

  • Zakariya Razi
    Zakariya Razi 11 hours ago

    When you cheat - you are the worst victim.

  • Darya K.
    Darya K. 11 hours ago

    i have never wanted to jump into a computer screen and smack someone

  • Natasha Allen
    Natasha Allen 12 hours ago

    I’m sorry but 2 minutes in and I can tell that most of these people are just selfish smh

  • Ophelia
    Ophelia 12 hours ago

    "It's not always wrong because what if the person you're in a relationship with is toxic. Then you have an excuse" First of all, that's the moment when you break up with someone. Why in the world would you stay with someone you don't enjoy. Second of all, being toxic right back also definitely doesn't solve the problem.

  • Mila Mey
    Mila Mey 13 hours ago +1

    I am struggeling with the word "cheaters" bc i think they DID cheat but that doesn't mean they ARE cheaters. It doesn't define them as a person.
    I get that they came to talk about their cheating experience so to give them a name as a group they used "cheaters".
    Just wanted to share my sensitivity when it comes to labeling people. 😁

  • Mila Mey
    Mila Mey 13 hours ago +1

    I can relate to Leah so much! Our stories are kind of similar.
    I had a longterm relationship and then I travelled to Korea and there were two different men who just liked me and showed that to me. It felt like waking up... I was reminded i am interesting, beautiful and likeable just the way i am. I somehow didn't feel like that for the past 3 years or more and didn't know i was craving to feel that. But i was. In the end I didn't cheat but maybe i would've if i'd stayed longer.
    After that it got even harder for me to be happy with my boyfriend. Everything was routine and the same old problems we still couldn't solve. In January after more than 5 years we broke up.

    • Leah Love
      Leah Love 10 hours ago +1

      Mila Mey thank you for sharing. i’m glad my experience resonated with you.

  • Third Eye High
    Third Eye High 13 hours ago +1

    Cheating/ getting cheated on Isn’t the end of the world💯this comment section is hilarious 😂

  • JF- Vyser
    JF- Vyser 15 hours ago

    i will never cheat but if i did i would just leave the relation ship bec i know it wont be the same u get me

  • 25.09
    25.09 15 hours ago

    they’re all so hypocritical tffff

  • Bertram Pole
    Bertram Pole 16 hours ago

    These are some sick people

  • imogen rose
    imogen rose 16 hours ago

    The guy, me n him should be in an open relationship aha

  • Amber Taylorxoxo13
    Amber Taylorxoxo13 17 hours ago

    Its really disgusting how they're complaining about their partner not trusting them after they cheated, and the fact that they're all laughing about it as if they've done nothing wrong.

  • Kasey Karlsen
    Kasey Karlsen 19 hours ago

    I cheated once and it was the worst moment of my life; I have vowed to never do it again and I AM changed. I know who I am and I will not be defined by one mistake.

  • Louise
    Louise 22 hours ago

    i can't finish this video

  • Kryptic Weirdo
    Kryptic Weirdo 23 hours ago

    the fact there are alot of girls says alot

  • Andrei Nathan Maxi
    Andrei Nathan Maxi 23 hours ago

    I cheated on my test

  • Bianca Books
    Bianca Books Day ago

    I appreciate that most of them are women bcs that demonstrates that not only men does cheat. It's not about the gender, it's about the person.

  • Alina K
    Alina K Day ago +3

    Pink haired girl: “ You can’t grow if you don’t forgive yourself”
    You also can’t grow if you don’t see you have deeper problem

  • Ky'm Young
    Ky'm Young Day ago

    At least the pink haired was honest. I didnt like how she didnt seem to care, but she didnt give herself an excuse to cheat. At least she owned it unlike these other people.

  • Slim kay
    Slim kay Day ago

    Love the girl w/ the purple bangs

  • c l o u d y t e a r s

    Can you please do people with anxiety or people with an eating disorder?


    I love that this channel gives us a chance to understand so many different perspectives

  • Miracle Felsner
    Miracle Felsner Day ago +1

    it's interesting how hypocritical they all are:
    "I would be willing to forgive someone if they cheated on me"
    They all said yes, yet complained how their partners all lost trust in them. But at the same time that one girl said I have a lot of hate in my heart because of the one person that cheated on me. How can you expect everyone to forgive you if you don't do the same? I noticed how all of them in this video basically glorified/justified cheating, as if they're proud of cheating. that's so crazy

  • _Nour. M.
    _Nour. M. Day ago

    If you plan to cheat and then stay with that person is so messed up. Just break up tf. It’s better than cheating.

  • Maria Luiza Pereira

    If you belive that a toxic relationship is a excuse to cheat, then you're mostly likely the toxic one.

  • Greta Sta
    Greta Sta Day ago

    the asian girl really said that she had a boyfriend but still felt jealous when boys looked at her friends.. tf is wrong with you? if you feel like your significant other is not good enough for you and you need attention from multiple boys then break up with them and be a stripper or something..

  • SaltyWoomy
    SaltyWoomy Day ago

    Vincent probably cheated on a Katherine with a girl named Catherine

  • kaytelyhn i guess

    if you can’t see yourself being in a commited relationship, don’t frickin BE IN ONE. there is no excuse to hurting someone who trusts you for your self gratification.

  • Lemonade Republic
    Lemonade Republic Day ago +1

    Regardless of how I feel about them, much respect for them coming on to talk about it

  • Joey Walker
    Joey Walker Day ago

    The lesson learned here is never be in a long distance relationship.

  • yn yn
    yn yn 2 days ago

    Cheaters deserve death penalty

  • chloe perry
    chloe perry 2 days ago

    this video disgusted me, oop.

  • VisualOpiate
    VisualOpiate 2 days ago

    "people who are watching this are also cheaters" ummm... No. What if I am person who got cheated on?

  • marry yaa
    marry yaa 2 days ago

    Cheating is no way justified!
    Hate cheaters!
    I've had like 3 relationships and all 3 guys cheated on me💔
    The recent one was the one whom I loved the most. I'm broken

  • Anima
    Anima 2 days ago

    Once a cheater always a cheater.
    If someone constantly has a massive urge to steal, or has cases of stealing alot, you would NEVER trust them with a large amount of physical money. So why the fuck would it be any different giving a large amount of trust to a cheater?

  • Laurence Laville
    Laurence Laville 2 days ago

    That girl with the pink and black hair right, cheating is always wrong, no matter what, just break up

  • Mayra Francisco
    Mayra Francisco 2 days ago

    Sorry Jubilee but this whole episode was disgusting

  • mara sivan
    mara sivan 2 days ago

    i find this video and the people in it really… disgusting

  • Riley and Megan
    Riley and Megan 2 days ago

    For the love thing idk what they said but you can love them. But you weren’t in love with them. Because if you were in love with them, you would do anything to make them happy. No matter what, if you started having feelings for anyone else then that person is not the one. No matter what you tell yourself, trust me. I’ve dated people and started liking someone else. It’s not cheating. But it made me feel so guilty cuz I never acted on it. Yeah I flirted a little with that one person. I know this isn’t an excuse but by then the relationship was dead. We broke up a week later cuz he also had started liking someone else 🤷‍♀️

  • The trash can
    The trash can 2 days ago

    the girl Hayley is so adorable aw

  • Alexa L
    Alexa L 2 days ago +1

    people make mistakes guys :(

  • no bruh123
    no bruh123 2 days ago

    pov: your their boyfriend or girlfriend watching this video

  • Amaya Mcclendon
    Amaya Mcclendon 2 days ago

    if "hypocrite" were people

  • • Sincerely, Future Pollution •

    "YOu cAn bE in LoVE aNd sTiLL cHeAtT" - you mean in love with themselves???

  • Emre Toprak
    Emre Toprak 2 days ago +1

    Learned lesson: Girls tend to cheat when they are away from you. People who are over 25 already knows that. The lesson is for the youngsters, If your gf goes to erasmus, break up with them.

    • олен
      олен 2 days ago

      A large percent of women are needy & require a lot of attention, something a lot of men aren't ready to provide.
      A lot of women need to learn the difference between "I like you because you validate me & give me attention" & "I like you because idk I just like you".

  • • Sincerely, Future Pollution •

    "When I cheated I enjoyed it" - all of them go to the right, :O, you- you shameless mafuckers !. I'm not their ex and got pissed off.

  • dont care
    dont care 2 days ago +1

    I don't get why everyone hates on them. They were honest and open enough to talk about this. And have you heard what Hayley said about the guy she cheated on? I agree that you should break up and not cheat, but if you CAN'T get out of a relationship then I thnk cheating isn't the solution, but it's (to an extent) justified.

  • олен
    олен 2 days ago

    this comment section has never experienced the situations & emotions that lead to cheating.

  • hellhound713
    hellhound713 3 days ago

    I've been cheated on and it made me think 'why am I not enough for you ' ' what could I have done'. It put me into a bad place. You cheat on me I dump you. No if and or buts.

  • Karaitiana
    Karaitiana 3 days ago

    Yo straight up cheating is always wrong, hands down. Doesn't matter the situation or the relationship, cheating is never the answer. There's so many other ways to deal with what's going on. bruhhhh

  • Natalia León
    Natalia León 3 days ago +1

    I loved this episode!

  • Yadira Valina
    Yadira Valina 3 days ago

    they’re really saying that their partners start questioning what they do after they find out they cheated like if it not completely reasonable

  • Rodriguez Ling
    Rodriguez Ling 3 days ago

    Aaaand I lost faith in humanity...

    • Lyrics Hour
      Lyrics Hour 3 days ago

      this comment section made me lose more faith in humanity than the people in the video did.

  • Paula Flanagan
    Paula Flanagan 3 days ago

    These guys are awful.
    I’m glad they showed to the world how they are awful people and how you should never trust them in a relationship.
    They kinda deserve it

  • Plant
    Plant 3 days ago +1

    When you cheat on someone you need to break up with them, if the trust is gone then what’s the point.

    • олен
      олен 2 days ago

      As someone who's cheated, it's never a matter of "just leave them duh you must not love them". It's a matter of a relationship being so beyond repair that cheating has become an 'option', & that's the wake-up call to leave whether you love them or not.
      For your own health (plus serious self-reflection & self-development) as well as theirs.
      Even if you cheat to cope, & have a 'reason' for it (usually very warped), it still completely damages the relationship PERMANENTLY.

  • Kylie Schelhaas
    Kylie Schelhaas 3 days ago +2

    I was watching this video hoping to understand their side, and I still don’t really understand, but maybe I’m just not looking at it the right way.

    • олен
      олен 2 days ago

      I really appreciate your open-mindedness.
      I'm finding (as somebody who's cheated) a lot of people don't seem to understand the separation of love & lust.
      I cheated when I felt so miserable & hopeless, & my relationship had become so damaged, that I became selfish enough to disrespect the bond of monogamy between my partner & I. I didn't leave my relationship however because I wanted to fix it. I did love them.
      It's a lot of really bad situations & feelings that cause such warped thinking. Personally for me it's no different to self-harm or substance abuse. I find that when cheating starts to seem like a suitable coping mechanism, it's a wake-up call that your relationship is beyond repair regardless if you love them or not.

  • ツPotato
    ツPotato 3 days ago +6

    The purple bangs girl and the guy are the single ones that have understandable statements and actually look like people that learned with their mistakes

  • Monna Wei
    Monna Wei 3 days ago

    i feel like hayley was the only justifiable person

  • Madison H
    Madison H 3 days ago

    i’ve personally never cheated on someone . however, i do understand those who have cheated only to get out of a relationship. for example, someone who is extremely toxic and won’t let you break up with them, when you give them that reason they may finally let you go. just a thought, i would enjoy hearing other’s perspectives :)

    • олен
      олен 2 days ago

      I've done this. In a very off-&-on, abusive (on both sides honestly) relationship, they were adamant me cheating would be the last straw for us.
      It wasn't.
      To cheat purely to hurt somebody enough to inspire them to part ways with you is frankly incredibly abusive as well.
      But it's never so black-&-white. It's usually incredibly damaged, warped thinking that leads to these situations.

  • Dineo Tswai
    Dineo Tswai 4 days ago

    May we please have a Common Ground episode by cheaters and people that have been cheated on?

  • J walking
    J walking 4 days ago

    I think this gender ratio sample is an accurate reflection of the general gender cheater ratio

  • Josephine Jørgensen

    Well my boyfriend was cheated on in his past, and it for sure gave him trust issues, and that hoe dare to still try to contact him, well girl he moved on, I would never cheat on my mans, cuz I love him. Now he luckily trust me and we have been together for over 3 years, and we are engaged.

  • Ale
    Ale 4 days ago +1

    The girl that cheated on her fiancé. Damn why!!! I’m engaged and in a long distance relationship and I don’t care who comes up to me I’m not doing that. I love my fiancé and I would never want to be with anyone else. That’s why you get engaged, because you found your person. The fact that she’s still getting married and how she talks about it makes it seem like she’s doing it out of guilt. Just because she already had a venue and everything. I get that she’s insecure but why would you say yes to married if you don’t love yourself first.

  • Kawaii Industries
    Kawaii Industries 4 days ago

    Wtf. Seriously horrible people. If you don’t want to be with someone, tell them. Y’all don’t realize you could literally ruin someone’s life just cause you’re selfish.

  • Cokesloth
    Cokesloth 4 days ago

    "only one guy in this episode"

  • 407Badkidzz
    407Badkidzz 4 days ago +1

    9:10 preacchhhhhhhhhhh omfg💯💯💯💯

  • Tilova Alam
    Tilova Alam 4 days ago +1

    wow these are some horrible horrible people lmao

  • Magdalena Ann
    Magdalena Ann 4 days ago +1

    Wait wtf 😭😭😂

  • Amalingat DORANTE
    Amalingat DORANTE 4 days ago

    5:07 *"you have no faith or trust in me"*

    the nerve tho. you fucked on another man and i'm supposed to trust you after that?
    trust holds relationships and friendships together and how you gon complain when you were knowledgeable and conscious of what you were doing at the time and knowing all of the consequences of what would happen after you'd cheat. if you don't like the relationship you're in or its toxic than leave bruh. there is no excuses for cheating

  • A TheJawn
    A TheJawn 4 days ago

    the Jamaican guy is why I don't date Jamaican men he don't care lol

  • Mathieu L
    Mathieu L 4 days ago

    They are all bad persons. I hope they'll try to be better persons

  • koolkat
    koolkat 4 days ago

    How do they expect trust after cheating wtf